The Ultimate Reset
Transform How You Relate to Anyone (Including Yourself) in Just 72 Hours!
No therapy. No awkward talks.
No dragging anyone along.
Experience The Harmony & Ease You Thought Was Impossible - At Home, At Work & Everywhere You Go.
This 3-Day Online Event Is Proven to…
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Deliver real relief from daily stress and pressure… so you can finally escape the constant tension, drama, and overwhelm at home, work, or in your own mind.
- Restore genuine harmony and connection in your life... so you can finally stop feeling alone, misunderstood, or like “the bad guy” no more distance, coldness, silence or wondering if things will ever get better with the people who matter most.
- Unlock the keys to lasting confidence and influence… so your kids and spouse eagerly listen, you have more valued impact at work, and you finally feel seen for all that you do for everyone.
- Create deep connection and true unity in your life… so you feel supported, understood, and part of a team enjoying the kind of togetherness that makes everything else feel lighter and more worthwhile.
WHO IS THIS FOR?
This 3-Day Reset is for you if…
- You’re a mom who wants real relief from never-ending stress, family drama & overwhelm so you can finally feel genuine relief, connection, and ease at home, without feeling alone or always responsible for holding it all together.
- You’re a dad who gives everything for your family... ready for a unified team & genuine influence, without being cast as the “bad guy,” misunderstood, or stuck in cycles of unnecessary conflict and silent frustration.
- You’re an entrepreneur craving a drama-free workplace... wanting to bring your best self to lead both business and family, build stronger rapport & influence with your team & clients and stop feeling spread thin or forced to choose between success at work and harmony at home.
- You’re a military spouse who’s exhausted from having to manage everything solo... craving deep connection, support, and togetherness, and ready for a proven reset that works even if your partner can’t participate. (proven to work for military members)
- You’re a corporate professional aiming for bigger impact and results... wanting sharper influence, better leadership, and powerful communication skills, so you can get the recognition and outcomes you deserve in your career and relationships.
- You’re a growth-driven person who lives for the best events and breakthrough ideas wanting more than just new information, but real, lasting integration and visible results from your growth efforts.
- You’re at a turning point: whether it’s a struggling marriage, distant kids, drama at work, or the isolation of doing it all yourself and you’re ready for a proven, rapid RESET that delivers instant relief, renewed confidence, and a sense of belonging that finally feels possible.
If you want real relief, confidence, and deep connection without therapy, drama, or waiting on anyone else this experience is for you.
We Cracked the Code
15+ Years, Thousands of Student Successes...
For years, we watched students just like you do everything they were told read the books, try the tips, go to therapy, and push through endless stress from family, marriage, work, or life.
But no matter how hard they tried, real relief, lasting confidence, and true harmony kept slipping just out of reach. Most felt isolated and overwhelmed, exhausted from carrying the emotional weight alone and frustrated that nothing ever truly changed.
That’s when we saw the missing piece that everyone needed wasn’t another trick or to do list. They needed a total reset an immersive, step-by-step experience to break through the old patterns and finally feel deep connection, ease, and relief in every part of life.
It’s Worked for 1,000s of Students Already
Once we brought students into this 3-Day Reset, everything shifted. In just 72 hours, they walked away lighter, clearer, and genuinely transformed with real results that stick.
Thousands of students from all over the world have attended this event. More than half come back for another 3-day reset because the transformation is so real, they want to experience breakthroughs in every area of life. This has been our #1 event for 14 years, with over 100 multiday retreats delivered and life-changing results shared in story after story.
The Best Part Is
You don’t have to wait for anyone else to join you.
Now, the same reset is here for you so you can stop struggling, get real relief, and finally feel the harmony and confidence you’ve been looking for. no drama, no therapy, no partner (or anyone else) required. That’s what the Relationship Breakthrough Retreat delivers and why it works.
STUDENT WIN
WHAT YOU GET:
What You Get in the Relationship Breakthrough Retreat (RBR) 3-Day Experience
3-Day Immersion Livestream – Attend From Anywhere
- Join live with a global community of parents, partners, leaders, and growth-minded individuals no travel, no stress.
- Experience the full event online, privately and conveniently, with dates to match your schedule.
Life-Changing Tools & Skills – Taught by Both Stacey & Paul
- Breakthrough insights from both a feminine and masculine perspective, taught by a real couple (together 30+ years with 2 kids & a business they operate together) with 15+ years of transformational results for students.
- See proven tools demonstrated so you don’t just “learn,” you experience the real “aha” moments.
Real-Time Experientials... Just for You
- Don’t just hear about change feel it.
- Experience guided, in-session exercises that reset old patterns and unlock new ways of relating, with zero extra “work” or homework.
Fresh Solutions for Every Relationship
- Instantly usable, proven tools for your marriage, kids, extended family, workplace, clients or even just how you talk to yourself.
- Never Seen Before: Get original tools and answers created by Stacey & Paul, not found anywhere else. Even if you’ve taken our courses, this event delivers all-new solutions not included in any courses.
The Easiest Breakthrough You’ve Ever Had
- No recordings, no homework, no partner needed.
- Just show up, soak it in, and watch life get lighter leave feeling renewed, clear, and proud of your next steps (regardless of who joins you).
The magic comes from learning, feeling, and experiencing both sides feminine and masculine right in the moment.
You’ll leave RBR feeling lighter, clearer, and genuinely transformed, with nothing left to “figure out” on your own.
Choose Your Tickets
VIP CLOSED
Why Everything Else Has Failed You...
They say you need the other person to meet you halfway.
You’ve heard it everywhere: “It takes two to fix a relationship.”
“Maybe you’re just not compatible.”
The world tells you there’s no hope unless the other person is willing.
But Here's the Truth...
Waiting for someone else to do their part keeps you stuck powerless, frustrated, and wondering if you’re the problem. Every time you try to talk, you end up in the same old argument or, worse, nothing changes at all.
Traditional advice and therapy actually make it harder by convincing you that you’re trapped unless both people buy in.
We discovered something radically different
Here's the Piece They're All Missing...
Relationship is a SKILL SET and it can be learned.
The issue isn’t you ...it isn’t them
and it isn’t the two of you together.
You’ve just run to the end of your skill set for how to communicate with someone wired differently than you.
You don’t need to change who you are, sacrifice your needs, or become a mind-reader. You just need the right tools that finally let you understand and be understood, fast.
The old way of "relating" simply doesn't work in today's world.
Relationship is a SKILL SET and it can be learned.
The issue isn’t you ...it isn’t them
and it isn’t the two of you together.
You’ve just run to the end of your skill set for how to communicate with someone wired differently than you.
You don’t need to change who you are, sacrifice your needs, or become a mind-reader. You just need the right tools that finally let you understand and be understood, fast.
The old way of "relating" simply doesn't work in today's world.
That's Why We Invented Relationship Development®
Thousands of our students have proven that when you use the skills and tools in our method, you change the relationships!
Getting the support, connection & understanding you have been missing.
Don’t get fooled by those that say you need to fix your relationships by cutting people out, going “no contact,” or trying to convince others to change.
That advice just shows that they ran to the end of their skill set to help you.
Thousands of our students have proven that when you use the skills and tools in our method, you change the relationships!
Getting the support, connection & understanding you have been missing.
Don’t get fooled by those that say you need to fix your relationships by cutting people out, going “no contact,” or trying to convince others to change.
That advice just shows that they ran to the end of their skill set to help you.
A Fresh Take on Lasting Happiness...
You CAN be happy in yourself and also truly happy with others... even the toughest relationships.
Relationship Development is the missing piece personal growth never gave you!
Finally, proven tools that let YOU create change, no matter where anyone else is at.
This is your invitation to finally escape the blame, the waiting, and the old, broken advice...
with a new approach that puts the power back in your hands.
You CAN be happy in yourself and also truly happy with others... even the toughest relationships.
Relationship Development is the missing piece personal growth never gave you!
Finally, proven tools that let YOU create change, no matter where anyone else is at.
This is your invitation to finally escape the blame, the waiting, and the old, broken advice...
with a new approach that puts the power back in your hands.
She Called Off Her Divorce… & He Thanked Her (& us)
Suzanne had tried everything years of marriage counseling, switching therapists, and even after her husband moved out, she still hoped to save her family.
He’d been gone for two years, and they were in the middle of divorce proceedings. Yet after taking just one of our micro-courses,
Suzanne found answers &
real progress she’d never gotten anywhere else.
It gave her so much hope, she called her lawyer and asked to delay the divorce until she could attend Relationship Breakthrough Retreat.
Everyone... her attorney, friends, and even family told her she’d tried enough and should just let go. But Suzanne followed her heart and grabbed her RBR event ticket anyway…to give her family one last real chance.
Her husband moved back in, they rebuilt their marriage, and several years later...
it was her husband Don, who stood up at our event to thank Suzanne (and us) for saving his family…
and giving him back a happy home with his wife and kids.
"During the toughest time, friends, co-workers & even loved ones were all telling me how to LEAVE...
It was only Paul & Stacey that showed me how to STAY."
- Don
No one would have imagined that just 7 years later, Don would pass away.
Paul and I spoke at his celebration of life and shared our love for Don and how GRATEFUL we are to Suzanne for taking the first step for her family.
Because of that ONE decision, Don spent his last seven years surrounded by love, joy, and family... years he would have missed if Suzanne hadn’t taken that leap.
Inside Relationship Breakthrough Retreat, we’ll show you exactly how one person can single-handedly create this level of transformation no matter how impossible things may seem.
Meet YOUR HOSTS
We Are The "HOW" People
STACEY MARTINO accidentally discovered the dynamic that's been destroying everybody's long-term relationships and then, together with her husband Paul, they invented the cure to solve it.
Over the last 15+ years we have tested our solutions with thousands & thousands of students around the world.
It works! In marriage, parenting, workplace, family...
This has been the missing piece in human relationships.
We call it Relationship Development®.
Through their profound work, the Martino’s have shown that couples work, doesn’t work; and that relationship is a skill-set and it can be learned.
The Martino’s have proven that it only takes ONE person to transform a relationship, ANY relationship!
Paul & Stacey Martino
Creators of Relationship Development®, Founders of RelationshipDevelopment.org
& Hay House Authors, The Missing Piece
Proven Results...1000s of Students...15+ Years
During a 6-year study of student results, the students in their RelationshipU® program had a 1% Divorce Rate, all 6 years! Those results are unheard of and that's because...their methodology WORKS!
Our methodology & tools are life-changing!
And... the students that get the best real-life results with our method & tools attend our 3-day immersion event, Relationship Breakthrough Retreat.
We have hosted over 100 multi-day events during the last 15+ years. Thousands & thousands of students have attended our events, from all over the world.
As part of our mission to help more people... we now deliver RBR as an online immersion event experience, it's never been easier or more affordable for you to attend.
(outside of RU) ...RBR is the BEST thing we do!
That's why we are making this opportunity available to you!
RBR is where genuine transformation happens—so you stop fighting your old habits and finally enjoy real calm, connection, and confidence in every part of your life.
The Schedule & Sessions
Day 1
“Clarity & Freedom Day”
"I didn't realize how much I really needed this until I saw it!"
SESSION #1
Making the Invisible...Visible
8:00 AM PDT (11:00AM Eastern)
SESSION #2
The Missing Piece (what no one told you)
10:30 AM PDT (1:30PM Eastern)
30-Minute Lunch Break
SESSION #3
5 Tools to Breakthrough
1:30 PM PDT (4:30PM Eastern)
SESSION #4
Decisions with Zero Regrets
3:30 PM PDT (6:30PM Eastern)
SESSION #5
Clarity & Freedom Integration
6:00 PM PDT (9:00PM Eastern)
7:00 PM PDT (10:00PM Eastern)
Day 2
“Masculine & FeminineDifferences Day”
"Probably half of our kerfuffles were caused by these differences!"
SESSION #6
Masculine & Feminine Differences & Solutions
8:00 AM PDT (11:00AM Eastern)
SESSION #7
Empowered Feminine & Interaction with Masculine
11:30 AM PDT (2:30PM Eastern)
30-Minute Lunch Break
SESSION #8
Getting the Results You Want... to Last! 4 Results Requirements™
2:00 PM PDT (5:00PM Eastern)
SESSION #9
Authentic Masculine & How It Interacts With the Feminine
5:00 PM PDT (8:00PM Eastern)
Event Ends
6:00 PM PDT (9:00PM Eastern)
Day 3
“Alignment & Influence Day!”
"Life Changing & Unforgettable!"
SESSION #10
Integration Workshop Experience
8:00 AM PDT (11:00AM Eastern)
SESSION #11
Conversations Without Fighting or Giving Up
10:30 AM PDT (1:30PM Eastern)
30-Minute Lunch Break
SESSION #12
Alignment, Rapport & Influence
1:00 PM PDT (4:00PM Eastern)
SESSION #13
How to Successfully Navigate Times When Masculine & Feminine Power Collide! (Her Storm, His Steel)
2:30 PM PDT (5:30PM Eastern)
Event Ends
3:30 PM PDT (6:30PM Eastern)
RBR Attendees Share Why They Love This Event...
Praise for The Relationship Development® Method
from The Students
"Relationship Development is a game changer. The tools shared will affect every (and I mean every) relationship, whether it’s spouse, parent/child, business, co-worker, neighbor. Each relationship can be completely directed in a positive,
uplifting, and loving way!”
— Bryant V.
“I stumbled across Stacey and Paul Martino while searching for ways to start my divorce. I felt that I was trapped in a marriage that I didn’t sign up for, with a husband I couldn’t speak to without fighting.
Fast-forward a couple of years and I am the happiest I have ever been! I singlehandedly transformed my broken marriage using the Relationship Development Method. My husband and I talk every day about the topics that we used to fight about.”
— Diana
“Relationship Development is the best thing I’ve ever learned. First, so I can actually love myself for who I am, and second, so I can lead by example and help my kids learn the same. I will be forever grateful to Stacey and Paul for helping me see things differently!”
— Julie R.
“Stacey and Paul Martino are world changers! Relationship Development has taken me to my next level in every area of my life. It fundamentally changed the way I approach life, and now I have total confidence in my ability to skillfully navigate whatever comes next. Despite ongoing challenges, I am the happiest and most at peace that I have ever been. I am eternally grateful to Stacey and Paul for the skills
and tools they teach with such incredible talent, wisdom, and sparkly joy! They are among the most important people of our generation, and I most enthusiastically recommend their teachings to anyone looking to uplevel their life and evolve their soul. Thank you, Martinos, for all you do, and most importantly, who you are!”
— D.H.
“Before joining Relationship Development, my partner and I had been in a comfortable but stagnant relationship for seven years. We were content, but we knew something was missing. Relationship Development has completely transformed our relationship. We went from a ‘meh’ relationship to experiencing love, excitement, and a shared desire to make the most of our lives together. Bonus: Our daughters are witnessing the positive impact of Relationship Development. They see first hand how a healthy and fulfilling relationship looks like and the mindset/tools required to get there.”
— Hannan
“Relationship Development not only saved my marriage, but it also saved me! My marriage was in a shambles. We were fighting what felt like every single day, and I had become a version of myself I knew was not me, not who I wanted to be, and definitely not who my family deserved! Stacey and Paul helped me realize that there was a better way! They helped me to see and understand the dynamics that were
unfolding in the fights between my husband and I, and taught me tools to actually solve them! And it worked! I believe every human deserves this knowledge!”
— Sarah
“Relationship Development has transformed me from the inside out! Everyone deserves to have this opportunity. Practical and transformative. This is worthy work!”
— Renee R.
“Relationship Development has transformed every aspect of my life, from my marriage and parenting to work and family relationships. I can now say that I truly love myself. Life’s challenges haven’t stopped, yet my happiness level keeps on increasing. This method is something every human being deserves to know.”
— A.C.
“Relationship Development has completely transformed my life. I first thought it was going to make my marriage better. What I have actually received has been an absolute gift! The level of peace and joy I get to experience every day is something I never thought was possible. This, from implementing the tools and strategies to become the best and most authentic version of myself possible.”
— Amanda
“I was teetering on the verge of despair and divorce after years of trying everything I could to reconnect with my husband for a more fulfilling and fun marriage... yet everything fell flat so I was exhausted! Something was missing and it felt beyond my grasp! Then I discovered the Martinos and their Relationship Development methodology, and everything changed for the better! I am so much happier and have a stronger love foundation to role model a healthy marriage and home life for our son.”
— S.K.
“By the grace of God, I found Relationship Development. With Paul and Stacey’s guidance, not only was our marriage saved, but it has become better than it ever was before. Our family is joy filled, connected, and there’s a newfound peace in our home. We no longer run to the end of our skillset quickly; we are consistently growing
together as a family and learning to navigate whatever comes our way together.”
— J.S.
“Relationship Development transformed our marriage when political tensions were straining our relationship. By implementing the methods, I shifted how I approached our conversations, especially around politics. Remarkably, this change defused the tension, and my husband, without even knowing about the tools, became more relaxed and happier. As we celebrate 30 years of marriage this year, our relationship, which had been under pressure, is now stronger and more connected. Today, we’ve moved past the political bickering and rediscovered the deep love and passion that first brought us together.”
— L.W.
Frequently Asked Questions
What if I want to do this for my marriage, but my partner doesn’t want to attend with me?
This is NOT a couple's event. This ticket is JUST for you. You don't need your partner to attend.
The Relationship Development Method is designed for ONE PERSON to get the skill sets to create the transformation.
What Dates Are Available? What If I Can't Make Those Dates?
We offer Relationship Breakthrough Retreat online immersion events several times per year.
On the confirmation page you will see upcoming event dates. You can choose whichever event works best for you.
You must attend all 3-days of the same event. This is an immersion event. You need the immersion for the result.
Your RBR event ticket can be used at any RBR event that we hold within 12 months of your date of purchase.
We will do our best to be as flexible as possible to accommodate you. If you cannot take 3 days off for this event, please DO NOT buy a ticket.
If you have any questions around dates, please email our team at [email protected].
What is Your Return Policy?
If you do not want to attend RBR, please request your refund within 3 days of purchasing your ticket.
Our Method Is Proven. Your Commitment Matters. This RBR event has been attended by thousands of our students worldwide and proven effective since our first RBR event in 2014.
Our solutions work. Every minute of this event is surgically crafted to give you the best possible result.
By purchasing your ticket, you confirm that you understand that this is an online livestream event, you have reviewed the details and pricing. You take responsibility for your purchasing decision. By purchasing your ticket, you acknowledge that you have read and agree to the Participation Terms for the event experience.
What is the Relationship Breakthrough Retreat Livestream Event like?
RBR is a FUN, high-energy, transformational, LIVE online experience with me and Paul.
This is not a “sit in your seat” in front of the computer and fall asleep listening to a “seminar” kinda thing.
RBR is VERY interactive and FUN!
Dates for the event:
This livestream event will be offered multiple times per year.
You can PICK the dates that work best for you.
You can PICK the dates that work best for you.
The Daily Start Time is 11:00 am Eastern/8:00 am Pacific each day (US Time)
For schedule and end times each day, review the event schedule on this page.
Just like at our in-person events...please plan to be fully present with us for the 3 days and don't make other plans during that time, so you can get the MOST out of the experience. Do NOT plan to "multi-task" during this event! Clear the decks and IMMERSE!
For our International Students:
Yes, for some of you, that will mean that this event is happening in the middle of the night. We get it. It's not convenient. Just remember that it is still more convenient (and a lot cheaper) then FLYING to Idaho from Singapore or Australia.
Yes, we have students who do this from all over the world. It's actually an OPPORTUNITY of a lifetime to be able to attend this live event without traveling from halfway across the globe!
And as Paul Martino always says "Comfort is not our standard". Remember, BREAKTHROUGHS do not happen INSIDE your comfort zone.
I Want to Come to Your Event In-Person, Not Online, Can I Do That?
We appreciate you so much. Paul and I no longer host the RBR events in-person. It's not a fit for our mission, to serve as many families as possible, around the world. Hosting online allows us to offer this event multiple times a year, and invite people in for the low ticket cost you are getting here.
After 15 years of hosting over 100 multi-day events.... we only do in-person events for our Advanced RelationshipU® Students and RU Leadership Students. If you want to get into that program for in-person experiences with us, you can apply to get in. Check out relationshipdevelopment.org for details.
If I may say so...if coming to RBR is about the enjoyment of the in-person event, the significance and what you want... you are doing this event for the wrong reasons. RBR is an opportunity for you to get answers that no one has ever given you before & results you didn't know were possible in 3 days. Come to RBR for the results and evolve yourself to the next version of yourself.
After 15 years of hosting over 100 multi-day events.... we only do in-person events for our Advanced RelationshipU® Students and RU Leadership Students. If you want to get into that program for in-person experiences with us, you can apply to get in. Check out relationshipdevelopment.org for details.
If I may say so...if coming to RBR is about the enjoyment of the in-person event, the significance and what you want... you are doing this event for the wrong reasons. RBR is an opportunity for you to get answers that no one has ever given you before & results you didn't know were possible in 3 days. Come to RBR for the results and evolve yourself to the next version of yourself.
Our Business Wants to Send a Bunch of People from Our Team to RBR. How Can We Do That?
Either have each person purchase their RBR Ticket here online, using the multi-ticket packs or reach out to our team and we will be happy to help coordinate tickets for your group.
Why do you curse in your programs and events?
In our content, programs and live events, we use ADULT language (cursing) as a strategic tool and because it's authentic for us.
If our cursing bothers you so much that you can't listen to us, then please DO NOT come to our events or programs. Of course, we encourage you to open your mind so that you, too, can get the benefits that so many others around the world already have!
The work that we do is beyond Relationship Education; we create Transformation.
One of the many methods we use to do that is to use real, raw language in our work. When people "polish up" their language, they "polish up" everything and they don't get to what's real.
We know how to get results.
There is cursing in our programs and plenty of cursing and adult language at our live events. (This will never change). We use cursing strategically, similarly to how a comedian would use cursing to create an outcome for the audience. Our cursing and adult language is never negative nor directed towards a person or group or in any way demeaning towards anyone.
Paul and I are no different on-stage or off-stage. This is how we talk. I would NEVER ask YOU to change how you talk for ME, and please know that I will never change how I talk for you.
If it triggers you, we invite you to please consider this... Instead of asking the world to change to not trigger you, pull out the trigger so that you are not thrown around by it. No one should go through life having a FEAR OF WORDS.
If our cursing bothers you so much that you can't listen to us, then please DO NOT come to our events or programs. Of course, we encourage you to open your mind so that you, too, can get the benefits that so many others around the world already have!
But that is absolutely your decision to make.
As we say "Everyone lives in the results of the decisions that they make. There are no exceptions."
Disclaimer: Our programs and content are not couple's counseling and are not intended as professional counseling, mental health, medical, financial, or legal advice. If you require such assistance, please seek the advice of a qualified professional.
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